intimacy, transparency, women & porn addiction, women & same-sex attraction

Finding the Intimacy We Were Created For

Years ago I found myself completely absorbed in a fantasy world. To look at me on the outside, everything was fine. I grew up believing my behavior around others was more important than what was actually going on inside of me. I started turning to pornography and fantasy to alleviate all of the pain going on inside… Read More Finding the Intimacy We Were Created For

heart healing, women & porn addiction, women & same-sex attraction

How I Learned To Fight Against Lust

Are you battling lust? Have you considered it harmless, because the man or woman you’re lusting after doesn’t even know about the thoughts you have been entertaining? You aren’t physically committing any kind of sin with them, right? God tells us differently: Matthew 5:28 says, “But I tell you that anyone who looks at a… Read More How I Learned To Fight Against Lust

identity, women & porn addiction, women & same-sex attraction

When The Enemy Attacks Your Sexual Identity (It Starts With Just a Thought)

I received an email from a woman who suddenly started having intrusive thoughts telling her she is a lesbian. She wondered where those thoughts came from and was confused by it all. This is not an isolated email. I have received other emails in the past from people who are suddenly bombarded with thoughts like… Read More When The Enemy Attacks Your Sexual Identity (It Starts With Just a Thought)